tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post790963864973074862..comments2023-08-08T07:39:35.282-07:00Comments on A PROUD MOM TO MANY: My life (or, Cruel and Usual Punishment)Vivhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08508647658368782915noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-4776178786931684152009-12-09T11:59:19.058-08:002009-12-09T11:59:19.058-08:00Gosh, ugh, Viv I just want to come hug you and bri...Gosh, ugh, Viv I just want to come hug you and bring a bottle of wine. <br /><br />I agree with the others in that there has to be some services out there that can help you. Years ago I remember there was a service that the local health agency or maybe it was the local united way, I can't remember. But they set up single parents who had children with behavioral issues with a local foster parent. Then that foster parent would provide what they called "respite" for the parent. It might be an afternoon, an evening or even a full weekend.<br /><br />I'm not saying that's an answer because I believe that was through the Department of Children now that I think about it. However, I know there are other services out there that can help you.<br /><br />I also agree with raising hell with your Dr for the neurology appointment. Of course the other thing is it may be stress related. If you are feeling this stressed you know your kids could be feeling some of it too.<br /><br />Good luck, prayers are with you.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04576404978307102332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-43633448696960147512009-12-09T06:43:07.835-08:002009-12-09T06:43:07.835-08:00So, this might be a stupid question, but has Herc ...So, this might be a stupid question, but has Herc been evaluated so that you can get some outside help or maybe get him into a special needs preschool? <br />You need help with this kiddo, it's sounds like it's not something that he can control. I know plenty of families who have huge locks on their doors and GPS systems on their kids, because it is just so scary and like you said happens too damn fast. <br />I wish you beer and babysitters as well, but more than anything I hope that things chill with the big guy! <br />Hang in there.kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09745145497047137395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-81982608227601054142009-12-09T06:21:23.138-08:002009-12-09T06:21:23.138-08:00Held hostage by a 3 year old....how do you feel ab...Held hostage by a 3 year old....how do you feel about straight jackets, duct tape and dog harnesses?<br /><br />Have we tortured every teenager in a 5 mile radius who has a "babysitting service"?<br /><br />your husband isn't around much, we could probably get you enrolled in one of those "big brother, big sister" programs where they have to take your kid for a few hours and like "mentor" him...of course we'll have to fudge some things to make them think you are a single mom...but honestly, essentially...when the hubby is away, you ARE! So it's not "really" lying, more like just sliding under the radar on a technicality.<br /><br />Hang in there sweetie....I'm rooting for you....<br /><br />~hl~HeatherLynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09381169621382952337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-54897402348149214892009-12-09T00:36:08.567-08:002009-12-09T00:36:08.567-08:00My son Owen sounds similar to Hercules. He just t...My son Owen sounds similar to Hercules. He just turned four though and constantly runs away anytime we are in public. Last spring he actually was knicked by a car while we were picking up my oldest daughter. He outweighs and is as tall as most of the first graders in my daughter's class. People look at him like he's their age too, and expect him to behave in that age category as well.---GretaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-48604398409013559812009-12-08T20:12:49.753-08:002009-12-08T20:12:49.753-08:00I agree with S.C. Don't be hard on yourself. ...I agree with S.C. Don't be hard on yourself. Take it out on the doctor's office or your insurance provider and get yourself a closer appointment. <br /><br />I wish I could email you a bottle of wine, some Harry and David's dark chocolate Moose Munch Crunch (my wife's favorite), and a babysitter Viv. You'll have to settle for good vibes and best wishes and being in our thoughts and all that other crap. Maybe you can get one of those giant hamster balls like they used to have on American Gladiators and put Hercules in that for a couple hours a day.Homemaker Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04184158557108064422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-284807085755443963.post-13467861675899357592009-12-08T20:00:30.064-08:002009-12-08T20:00:30.064-08:00This isn't a discipline issue. He literally c...This isn't a discipline issue. He literally cannot control himself is my guess. You're so tired, it's hard for you to see that. Please don't blame yourself.<br /><br />And, somehow, you have to raise hell with the doctor's office. I belong to an HMO, and no way would I have to wait 2 months to see a specialist with the condition your son has. That could be something serious.Suburban Correspondenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11488916572135296650noreply@blogger.com